He is playing games and says things to provoke. I have let him suck me into his stupid games enough and really not in the mood tonight. Let him ask and answer his own questions. Any other answers won't be good enough anyway. When a person has a closed, horribly slanted brain it won't see the possibility of another side anyway. For me, for awhile, refusing to answer his questions is my best option. Guess I am really getting old.