Seems these Catholic charaties are being rather selective. On one hand they support contraception, on the other they don't. On one hand their hospitals will do abortions, on another they won't. As for gays, they totally won't support them but many Priest are gay, go figure. They hide their own offspring and slip them quietly into adoption centers. While there are many things I admire this religion for, I do not understand them. Guess that is why I chose to never become nor marry a Catholic. I can pray to God without man, I can take communion without confessing to man (just like the Bible says to do. It does't mention confessing anything to do it). I can have a funeral without confessions to a man, in a Church. I can sit along side a gay person or a prostitute and not worry because we are all there for the same reason, to understand the words of Jesus Christ and God. Were I to try that in a Catholic Church they would have to be in hiding and not be able to be who they are. So many reasons. But this is my choice. We all make our own.