apmom wrote:
How does one equate being a bully and verbally and/or physically attacking someone which does do harm to others with a woman making her own choice about her own body?

Well AP, those that want to tell you what to do with your body are being a bully.  It might not be a physical bully but they are mental bullies.
  

Every gun that is made, every warship launched, every rocket fired, signifies in the final sense a theft from those who hunger and are not fed, those who are cold and are not clothed.

-- Dwight Eisenhower